Advice on being attracted to married man met on Facebook

Requested in Love & Relationships by a contributor
edited by 2cent

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I would lose the friendship. That's almost always bad news.

Shared by sweetone

He's this handsome and intellectual man I met on there. We originally met from listening to an online talk show and then he requested me on Facebook. A few weeks later he shared his wedding pictures with me. At that time I didnt have any interest in him. He lives in my birth country but I am in the U.S. We began to message each other very often and I became attracted to him. We would Skype and he would compliment me on my personality and beauty. He is a caring person from what I can see.

Anyways, I guess I'm suspecting that he is letting someone else in their relationship. He expressed his feelings to me. I know that it would be wrong to have a relationship with him but I like his company as a friend also. Earlier he spoke about making more money so he could be able to take care of me also along with his wife. And by that I would be his mistress. I need some advice. I don't want to lose this friendship but if I let my feelings decide I would end up in a mess.

Commented by a contributor

He is scum treating his wife this way. He would do it to you too.

Commented by sweetone