Advice on 14 yr old having sex with her 15 yr old boyfriend

Requested in Love & Relationships by Doggylover2212
edited by 2cent

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Just keep reminding yourself of all the reasons not to have sex yet. Primarily the fact that you have a long and bright future ahead of you and getting pregnant would be a very bad thing for you right now. So try to keep busy with other activities.

Shared by marinemj

We have been together for about three months and I am madly in love with him and I hope we stay together forever! He feels the same way. He's not like any other guy I've ever met. He's extremely sweet and my family loves him and I know that sex is TOTALLY out of the question but it's just that whenever I'm with him I just have this urge to pounce on him and rip off his clothes. It's not a strong urge. I just wish it would go away because I don't want it to get so strong that I can't control it. Please help.

Commented by Doggylover2212

You sound like an intelligent young lady. And a normal teenager. You're in love, and your hormones are raging. Please make sure that you and your boyfriend keep occupied with safe, public activities that will burn off energy (miniature golf, rollerblading, whatever), but that you also are prepared. If your boyfriend is just as hormonal, and I'm sure he is, make sure he has protection on hand in case things heat up.

Commented by HarleyGirl

It's not going to go away. It's hormonal and I'm afraid you are just going to have to live with it. Keep reminding yourself that your brain is in control, not your hormones. If you really think you are going to have sex, please don't be in denial about it - get some protection and make sure he uses a condom every single time. No matter what time of the month, what position, anything. Use one. Every time.

Commented by marinemj