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Advice if your husband hits you often but says he loves you

  
Requested in Love & Relationships by SunChaser
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Your husband is a product of the environment in which he grew up.  However, he should have learned through life that men do not hit women.  When someone loves you no matter how angry they can be at you they should never hit you and you are in a very abusive relationship.  Men who beat their wives are frustrated, can be narcissistic in nature, are actually more angry at themselves, feel you are their chattel and can do what they want to you because you are 'his wife.'  Good marriages are built on respect of each other, loyalty, honestly, getting angry once in awhile, but cooling off without abuse and making up later.  Since your husband hits you often he's abusive and it will get worse so it is advisable you leave (with children if you have any) and go to a Women's Abuse Center where they will protect you and your children and put you in a 'safe house.'

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