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My thoughts about guys who dip: it's the most disgusting habit ever. The mungy teeth, the yucky taste it leaves, the spitting... just thinking about it makes me want to gag. Seeing a guy with his lip all distorted because he's got a big plug o' dip stuffed down there... ugh. I actually find it grosser than smoking and I freakin' hate smoking. Of all that, the spitting is the worst.

Yes, I have declined to go out with guys who chewed/smoked for that reason.
I'll be starting college in a few days and I'm hoping to find myself a new girlfriend. I've been addicted to dip since I was 16 and from what I've heard most girls ABSOLUTELY HATE guys who use the stuff. I've always wondered why is it so unattractive? Ladies, what are your thoughts about guys who dip? Would you date one?

The thing is, I love to chew tobacco. It's not something I'm willing to give up. Yes I'm aware of all the health risks but it is my personal decision. I wouldn't use the stuff around girls or anything, but how could I go about telling her that I use it? I thought about keeping it a secret, but it just doesn't seem like the right thing to do because after all I would be living a life of lies and deception by using it behind her back.
Your instinct to be open from the beginning is a good one. And here is a little bit of wisdom: most people who smoke/chew do not realize how annoying and pervasive the grossness is. You probably don't taste it in your mouth after you have brushed your teeth but your girlfriend will. Plus all your pants pockets probably have that little circle from the can. So the odds of you being able to keep it a secret are not good. As far as how to tell a girl... if she doesn't already know I would suggest mentioning it in casual conversation before things have a chance to get too far. That way she can decide how far she wants to let things go. Just like it is your choice to take on the nastiness and health risks, she has the right to decide whether she wants to be involved with someone who takes on that nastiness and health risk.
You are a man - and so you have no fixed personality/reputation, really. You will oscillate between whichever female you belong to.

This issue of dipping is not as big as you make it seem. Your life-stage (i.e you are not ready to work for a woman) has you playing kind of tight right now, but when the time is good, you will get the kind of maturity that will make giving up dipping and a whole bunch of other "life-long/die-hard/I thought I would never give this up" things very, very easy. You will do it without feeling like you are a chameleon or a sell-out.

Enjoy your time - and your dipping till then.

Good luck.

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I think girls find it a disgusting habit and associate it with Redneck Hillbillies, not educated college men. And you may not do it around girls, but I guarandamntee you that we can smell it (just like we can smell cigarette smoke on a man). I'm not condemning you for doing it (my grandfather was a Copenhagen man all his life, but he was a farmer and it was common with his generation). My advice to you is to be honest because you're not going to be able to hide it. But knowing that women hate it, you have to make a choice: keep chewing and hope you find a girl who doesn't mind or give it up and widen your dating pool.
I wouldn't date a guy that smokes or uses chewing tobacco. I can't stand the smell of cigarettes and I certainly don't want to kiss a mouth that's been chewing. It's not a habit I want to put up with. It's not really that I want to regulate a guy's health. Marijuana doesn't smell or taste gross to me and so I don't care about that.

That's my personal choice, but with that choice I know that with that choice I'm knocking out a good 25% of the population as a potential date.

There are girls that don't care about your tobacco use and they will date you. Just don't be surprised if things stop with a girl the second she finds out you chew. Just be upfront with it.
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After 12 years of marriage, me and my husband has been into one quarrel or the other until he finally left me and moved to California to be with another woman. i felt my life was over and my kids thought they would never see their father again. i tried to be strong just for the kids but i could not control the pains that torments my heart, my heart was filled with sorrows and pains because i was really in love with my husband. Every day and night i think of him and always wish he would come back to me, I was really upset and i needed help, so i searched for help online and I came across a website that suggested that Dr Unity can help get ex back fast. So, I felt I should give him a try.

I contacted him and he told me what to do and i did it then he did a (Love spell) for me. 28 hours later, my husband really called me and told me that he miss me and the kids so much, So Amazing!! So that was how he came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and he apologized for his mistake,and for the pain he caused me and the kids. Then from that day,our Marriage was now stronger than how it were before,All thanks to Dr Unity. he is so powerful and i decided to share my story on the internet that Dr Unity real and powerful spell caster who i will always pray to live long to help his children in the time of trouble, if you are here and you need your Ex back or your husband moved to another woman, do not cry anymore, contact this powerful spell caster now. Here’s his contact,

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how i got my ex boyfriend back after a break-up.
I'm Alvin Lee 21 yr old from UK,
My boyfriend left me when i was 7months pregnant. A week after he left, I found out he was dating someone who posted a picture of him kissing her in facebook and that she “loves this man”. I am sick to my stomach. I want him back I do not want to be apart much less separated. I love my boyfriend and I want to fight for him. I’m so scared of losing him. i knew my boyfriend and i also know that some thing else was involve on this, when i found out that this Girl use a Black magic spell on my boyfriend just to take him away from me, i was so devastating this as a result also destroyed my heart and soul because i love my boyfriend and i really want to get back with him i have seek for different counselling, nor could work out for me so i started given up on my boyfriend because there was no hope on getting back with him. one faithful night after my work,, I searched for help online and I came across a website that suggested Dr.Unity can help get ex back fast, restore broken relationships and stop a divorce. So, I felt I should give him a try.
I contacted him and told him my problems and he told me what to do, and i did it and he did a {love spell} for me. 11hours later, my boyfriend called me and apologized for the wrongs he did and promise never to do it again. Ever since then, everything has returned back to normal. Thank you Dr Unity for saving my broken relationships and brought my boyfriend back to me!"..
Me and my boyfriend are living together happily again. Dr.Unity is the best online spell caster that is powerful and genuine. If you have any problem contact him and i guarantee you that he will help you. Here’s his contact..Email him at: Unityspelltemple@gmail.com ,you can also call him or add him on whats-app:+2348071622464,or view his website:https://unitysspelltemple.blogspot.com.
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